“You know what to do, you’re just not doing it”
I’ve said this exact quote in many client consultations over the years and it’s a fundamental belief of my coaching model.
I have the assumption that everyone knows WHAT to do, it’s just that they AREN’T DOING IT.
I believe this and bring it up because it’s the most common question we get as coaches:
- What do I do to work my: obliques, butt, inner thigh, love handles, jiggly bits
- What do I eat to help me lose weight, gain weight, build muscle, not lose muscle, get toned
- What’s the best exercise for…
- What’s the best food for…
- What’s he best protein, BCAA’s, creatine, Vitamin D, B, A, C, E, F, G, H, I, J, K (you get the point) to take
- What, what, what…
On some level it may be true that you don’t actually know the answers to these questions. But unfortunately it’s not the lack knowledge itself that’s the problem.
The problem is that it’s that it’s at such a micro level of focus.
And honestly, most people don’t know the perfect, specific answer to these questions fully because it’s always going to take some level of trial and error. (I’ll expand in next week’s article)
However, the micro focus questions are not what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about the general sense, the higher level view, the bigger picture focus on knowing what to do.
In the big picture we all know what to do:
Exercise more an eat less junk!
Until you are DOING that foundation, the microscopic view of individual vitamins or exercises, as expressed in the example questions above, mean nothing.
First you need the habit and discipline to do what you need to be doing.
I was inspired to write this because I recently watched a Keynote speech from an internet mentor of mine: Gary Vaynerchuk
In that keynote he says:
“Information has never been less valuable than it is today”
If you want to see it yourself, watch about 45 seconds and then come back here. Please. (you can watch the rest later)
His point is that the internet has everything we ever need to know and is literally at our finger tips on our phones. In seconds Google or Siri can tell you anything you want to know.
I digress back to my point.
Not knowing what to do is not your problem, it’s that you’re not doing it.
Getting answers about what to do will take you less than 30 seconds with a google search on your phone.
Heck, I’ll make it even quicker for you with some links:
But the truth remains, whatever knowledge you gain, you’re still going to have to get out there and do it. You’re still going to have to take a step forward and move.
My suggestion: put down the phone and step away from the search. Just go do something.
Do any damn thing you want that moves you one step closer to your goal.
Once you do, Tweet or Snap me and let me know what you did.
However, the next part is the actually the hardest.
Now you need to keep doing it. Over and over again. You now have to continue the journey.
You may not know everything, but you know something you can do to get started. Just start doing it!
And no you’re not going to be perfect at it. No one is.