What to do when your goal feels impossible

Our AnthroPhysique running coach Justin had a great Instagram post the other day:

 

I’ve seen this on Instagram a lot and it’s very common with our clients.

You are so focused on your goal, the end destination, you get caught up in how far away it is.

You look at the road ahead and start to feel like you’re never going to make it.

You lose motivation, get depressed and doubt if it’s even possible.

However, the problem here isn’t that the road ahead is long and hard, it’s that in this moment you forget to look back at the road you’ve travelled.

You forget about where you’ve come from.

You forget about what you’ve overcome.

You forget about how hard you’ve worked.

You forget how hard it was just to get started, let alone keep going.

If you can just take a moment to turn around, look at how far you’ve come and truly appreciate the progress you’ve ALREADY MADE, you’re likely to have a different perspective.

You can appreciate that this is just part of the journey and really, you’ve already done this before.

You’ve overcome the hurdle.

That’s all this is. This moment is just another speed bump on the road to our goal that slows us down a little.

It can be overcome, and it’s easier if you look back and see how strong you already are.

You CAN!

~ Chad

What if 2 years changed everything?

If I told you it would take at least 2 years to reach your fitness goals, how would you respond?

Would you think 2 years is a long time?

Would you be willing to start that journey?

Would you want a guarantee?

Would you blow it off and find someone else who will tell you differently?

In my years of coaching experience, for most people to truly reach their health goals it takes 2 years, at least, of solid effort.

Now I’m not talking about the initial goal of 10, 20 or 30 pounds. I’m talking about the true, big picture, IDEAL VERSION OF YOU goals.

Sound scary?

Depends how you look at it. Continue reading “What if 2 years changed everything?”

Results not typical – overcoming slow progress

What if slow progress was actually normal?

I had an interesting conversation with my client the other day. She emailed me her progress for the week and talked about how failing to plan her week lead to failure in the week.

She felt her progress was slow and wasn’t as good as she wanted for the week. However, she did see the positive and said “slow progress is still progress”.

At first I thought: Very true!

I thought it was a great positive mindset about the week. It turned a negative into a positive. This is good right?!

But then I thought a little further.  Continue reading “Results not typical – overcoming slow progress”

Work, the variable of success

We are 3 weeks into January and the sad reality is that many people have already “fallen off the wagon” from their new year resolutions.

This might even be you.

You’ve missed a day, two or even a week already because life is busy and pulling you in every direction.

It seems like you’ve failed already.

However, that just isn’t true. It’s only a failure if you let it be.

You may have failed last week or maybe even yesterday but today is a new day. You get a new chance to get up and put in the work.

The difference between success and failure is how hard you work.

If you give up and stop working, of course that’s a failure. If you’re wondering why you’re not seeing results but you’re putting in minimal effort, stop worrying. It’s the effort, you need to work harder.

Even if you’re working your ass off and still not seeing results, you still have to work harder.

I’m sorry if that’s not what you wanted to hear, but it’s the truth.

How hard you’re working is the variable dictating wether or not you will be successful.

If you’re struggling, take a step back, review your goal and ask yourself what it’s worth. Is it worth the effort?

If not, that’s ok, but you need to find something else. If yes, then shut the eff up, quit whining and get to work!

If you need a little guidance to help you fit it all in let me know, I’m here to help!

~ Chad

Do your short term actions match your long term goals?

What’s your long term vision of your health?

Do you want to be healthy for the next week? 3 months? 12 months? 3 years? 50 years?

Seriously, this is no joke.

When I ask people this question, most people answer in the 50+ range or “the rest of my life”.

Like it’s a no brainer.

However, their short term actions don’t match their long term goals.

They are only focused on a short term goal, and if they don’t see results within weeks “it’s not working” and they give up.

Sound familiar?

People want long term results but only have a short term plan.

Do me a favor: comment below with your 3 month, 12 month, 36 month and 30+ year vision of your health.

Then let me know if that activity has changed your perspecitve.

~ Chad

The Struggle is Real!

Ever seen an Instagram post or Tweet talking about “the struggle is real”?

It often seems like it’s a way to say “oh, look at how hard this is for me”. Or maybe it’s just an excuse as to why they aren’t succeeding.

Either way it seems like it’s a bad thing that there is a struggle.

And to be honest, that used to be me. I hated the struggle.

However, over the past year or two, I’ve taken a new perspective on the struggle: Continue reading “The Struggle is Real!”