Life vs Goals – the struggle is real

If you’ve ever had a goal, you’ve probably realized that it’s pretty damn hard to achieve.

You get started, you’re good for a week or two then BAM, life smacks you on your ass and you’re struggling to get back on track.

This is the thing with life and goals, they’re kinda like enemies.

Your goal is the thing you WANT to do.

Life is all the things you HAVE to do.

Your goal is the thing you AREN’T doing.

Life is what you ARE doing.

They are constantly fighting for your time. You try and make time for your goal but life just gets in the way.

This is the struggle of “Lifestyle”. The ideal situation is that the goal becomes part of your life. It fits within your normal schedule and life and it stops interfering.

However, building a lifestyle takes time. It takes the fight and it takes the struggle. Your goal will stay a goal and the thing you’re struggling to do for a long time. But that’s okay.

If you can accept that they are different, that they aren’t friends, that at times they are even enemies, then you can stay patient and let the process take place.

It’s your goal, it’s what you want, so it’s worth the fight.

The good news is that the fight isn’t forever. It’s gonna be longer than you expect or want, but if you keep working it will end. You will succeed.

Your efforts will win. Life will win. Eventually it will no longer be a goal and something you aren’t doing.

Eventually it will just be life.

~ Chad

Not sure it will work?

not sure it will work

Have you ever hesitated to sign up at the gym, download the app, purchase the equipment, or hire the trainer because you’re just not sure it will work?

not sure it will work

You’ve already tried so many things, is this just going to be one more thing that ends up in the same place? Failure.

Truth is, everything works. Every workout program, every diet, everything. Continue reading “Not sure it will work?”

Fitspo Doesn’t Work

I recently read an article that the Fitspiration (Fitspo) trend is backfiring.

This is something I totally agree with and mentioned a bit in my last article “Does motivation lead to action or does action lead to motivation?

I’m not able to speak to the mental health issues brought up in the article or the relation to social media use in general, but I do agree with the state this so-called “fitspiration” puts you in.

Fitspo is short for Fitspiration which is short for Fitness Inspiration. The idea is simple: browse images to inspire you to exercise. With 55+ million posts on instagram you have plenty of options!

The ideal formula is:

Look at images -> get inspired -> exercise -> get fit -> look good naked.

The formula seems simple enough, but it rarely works in reality. It usually ends up looking like this:  Continue reading “Fitspo Doesn’t Work”

Running with Anxiety

Running with Anxiety has been a monster I’ve had to deal with my whole life… While sometimes I was unaware of what to call this monster it has always affected my running and, more importantly, my life in a huge way.

It has affected me for the better recently but as I have talked about in the past I didn’t always know how to ask for help, and I didn’t always understand what was happening to me. Continue reading “Running with Anxiety”

You Never Regret A Workout

This morning, I woke up with a humdinger of a cold. Puffy eyes, scratchy throat, stuffy nose, the works. I looked and felt like death warmed over and ran through an entire tissue box in the span of about ten minutes. Is there anything more annoying than the start of a cold? I think not.

In the nights prior, I had scheduled a workout for that morning. It was supposed to be my longest run to date and I had been working towards this distance for about two months now. Running is definitely not my forte, but I had started to develop a “like” for it and was actually making headway on my long distance goals. I must make a note here: though I am talking about running, I am certainly not the coach to go to for running advice; please see Justin for all your track needs 🙂

Unfortunately, this cold had blocked any possibility of me feeling my hair in the breeze this morning. There was no way that I could make it five minutes on my run without stopping to blow my nose. It basically gave me every excuse to forgo any sort of exercise, adjust my alarm, and grab at least an hour more of sleep. I was achy, sickly, and just all around gross and no part of me wanted to exercise.

But as I started to readjust my eye mask I remembered an old saying that always pops into my head in these types of situations; you never regret a workout. And it’s true, isn’t it? Barring any sort of physical injury, no one ever finishes a workout and says, “What a waste of time.” Because working out isn’t a waste of time. It’s a positive step in every facet of your life. It improves your mind, body, and soul and it always starts or ends your days right. While the minutes leading up to a workout can be filled with dread, the moments after a workout always bring a sense of accomplishment and those lovely exercise endorphins that we all love and treasure.

That saying, “You never regret a workout,” prevented me from going back to bed. It helped me lace up my sneakers, blow my nose about four million times, and head to the gym. Did I do a hard work out? Not at all. I lightly jogged on the elliptical for about 30 minutes (don’t worry, I wiped it down with disinfectant afterward). While it wasn’t the most taxing workout, it was physical activity and I felt great afterward. It didn’t magically eliminate my cold but it did give me a happy feeling that stayed with me for the rest of the day and for that I’m grateful.

So just remember, in those times of doubt, those times when every part of your body is telling you to just skip the gym and stay home, I want you to focus on the accomplishment you will feel after you complete your exercise, the euphoria that comes with crossing something off your to-do list. Everyone, say it with me: YOU NEVER REGRET A WORKOUT!

Does motivation lead to action or does action lead to motivation?

Motivation Fitspiration

I’ve noticed in my social media feeds there are a ton of posts about Motivation. I’m sure my feed is a little biased towards fitness, but still, everyone is looking for motivation.

Whether it’s a #MotivationMonday tweet, #Fitspiration post on Instagram or a motivation board on Pinterest, the options for motivational content is limitless.

But does that motivation ACTUALLY leads to action? Continue reading “Does motivation lead to action or does action lead to motivation?”

Running Through It: Marathon Recovery Plan

Post-Marathon Recovery Plan

A Post Marathon recovery plan can be tricky, how do you get started on your next training plan? How do you make sure you are fully recovered?

As with all things the perfect plan is very individualized, some runners need more time off and need their recovery to be monitored to make sure they are completely recovered going into the next training cycle while other runners need to be coerced into taking time off because they feel fresh after a couple of days.

It is important to consider mental recovery in this case though, as my college coach used to tell us,

“You either take a break voluntarily or your body will decide for you”.

You may not feel exhausted… but the toll of all of those long runs and hard efforts will take its toll eventually. It can be very tempting (especially after a pr race) to just fire through from one marathon to the next and you might even get away with it for a little while.

However, eventually, this will catch up with you, Continue reading “Running Through It: Marathon Recovery Plan”

Why Online Personal Training Is Simply The Best

When it comes to physical appearance goals, whether it’s to lose weight, gain weight, grow muscle, lean out, etc, we all know that there are two main facets that we have to monitor to reach our target; food and exercise. In the “olden days,” (i.e. the days before we were all walking around with tiny computers attached to our hands) people turned to books and dietitians for advice about food and visited personal trainers for exercise guidance. But here we are in 2018, where everything, even meditation, can be done online.

So why are we still looking to the “olden day” tools to help us get to our goals?

This is where online coaching/personal training comes in. Continue reading “Why Online Personal Training Is Simply The Best”

You’re exhausted, of course you can’t workout

Not having enough time is one of the best excuses to not workout.

Not having enough energy follows closely behind.

I get it. You’re busy.

You work all day, you have other things to do, you need to take care of the kids, etc, etc, etc. By the time you get home all you want to do is collapse on the couch. Who can even think about a workout!

Sound familiar?

Your energy is used up on the rest of your life, so there’s none left for a workout.

Maybe…

What if that’s a lie?

What if the opposite is actually true? Continue reading “You’re exhausted, of course you can’t workout”

Training for Longevity

Longevity

Training for longevity is a topic that has been popping up in a lot of conversations for me lately.

Longevity in a fitness sense is about having a high quality of function and ability throughout your entire life.

I believe our current generations will be living a long time. With the advancements we have in medicine, science, surgery, etc, many of us will likely reach 100 years of age and beyond!

That’s pretty fucking cool, but it’s also pretty fucking scary if you think about our current lifestyles and training methods.

I’m worried that we will make it that far in age, but I’m not sure our bodies will last that long.

One of the scariest things to me is the idea of living till 100 but having my body give out when I’m 60, 70 or 80.

I don’t want to be alive the last 20, 30, 40 years of my life unable to truly live! 

One of my favourite quotes is: Continue reading “Training for Longevity”

An Argument for Average Fitness

Average Fitness

I recently read an article by Mark Manson called “In Defense of Being Average“. (worth a read!)

The premise of the article is that we tend to idolize and make heroes of people (or characters) who embody perfection. We think up heroes like Batman and Superman, and idolize Greek gods and Spartan warriors. We’re always looking up to those that are the best at what they do.

The same is true in fitness. You can tell by the endless amounts of Instagram posts of “Fitspiration” focused on peach booty’s and 6-pack abs. It’s perfect images of perfect body’s in perfect lighting and perfect poses.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s nice to look at for sure, but what does that do for our expectations of OUR fitness? Continue reading “An Argument for Average Fitness”

Amazing Results in ONLY 15 DAYS!!!

I get quite frustrated from 30 day programs. I get more frustrated from 21 day programs.

Just now I saw on Instagram a 15 day program.

Seriously. WTF!?

What the fuck can you possibly achieve in 15 days?

In the post they’re hyping that it’s a diet plan, recipes, workouts, a group for support and coach all for only $150.

$150 for a 15 days program!?!

Now, $150 for a diet plan, workouts and coaching might not be that bad of a price, but again, what the fuck will you achieve in 15 days?

As always, I wonder then what?

This is the loophole.

Let’s say it’s a super strict cutting regimen. You actually see results because you go after it 100%. Heck, it’s only 2 weeks right. Anyone can go 100% for 2 weeks.

You’re so “successful” you lose 10 pounds!! Amazing results right!?!

But still, then what?

Will you be better off?

Will you be able to keep it off?

Will you have learned anything?

No you won’t. You will have forced yourself to succeed BECAUSE it’s so short term. You have ZERO plans or focus on the long term and how to MAINTAIN the results you just created.

Usually, you’ll be so exhausted by the intensity of the 15 days you’ll happily dance back into your “normal” routine and go right back to day 1.

This shit drives me crazy!

If you’re falling for this stuff and frustrated with not getting any results. You should be.

That stuff doesn’t work, it never works, and it never will. Stop falling for it.

I hope this post sheds some light on the process of these things and helps you see why. If you want long term results, get a long term mindset.

At least something beyond 15 days. Or 21. Or 30. Or even 90.

Please.

I Don’t Wanna – Lacking Motivation

“I’m tired.”

“I’ve had a long day.”

“It’s late and I need to rest.”

“What’s one missed day…”

Ever had these thoughts?

Ever been lacking motivation?

These are the thoughts we have on the days we don’t wanna.

We have a goal. We’ve been working hard for it. But today is harder than most.

Then the justifications come.

“Today I feel like I deserve a break.”

“Today I think rest is what’s best.”

“Today I just don’t have the motivation.”

I saw we, because it happens to me too. Many of my clients have thought I’m immune to these days somehow, but it’s just not true.

These days exist for most of us so don’t use it as another excuse and think you’re special.

The difference between success and failure for reaching our goals is the decision we make on these days. The difference between success and failure is how we end these days.

Did you give in, buy the excuse and take the rest day you “earned”?

Or did you buck up, dig deep and make it happen anyway?

We all have days we don’t wanna, but it shouldn’t affect the actions you take.

If you truly want to reach your goals, you know how this ends 😉

~ Chad